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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 20.06.2025 00:32

How does one succeed in life?

What I need from you?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Ask yourself:

What happens in Sweden if you cannot pay a hospital debt you did not know about until recently but willing to pay when your finances improve?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Is the saying "nice guys finish last" true? Can good intentions always lead to positive outcomes?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

What if you were the only and last person left on Earth. How will you survive and what would you do with your life?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

It seems that I am cursed with bad luck. How do I break such a curse?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Hangs out with loser friends.

Has anyone had a romance scammer start messaging them on Quora? How do you know if the person is scamming you? What do you do?

Making more friends is a goal.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Did you know God exists? 900+ answers later and no atheist has yet to be successful. Day 8 of asking Atheists to provide a SINGLE argument that demonstrates a cause for the beginning of the universe while avoiding the problem of infinite regression.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Could humans be selectively bred, like dogs, to create 2 subspecies that can no longer have offspring? Do I not understand selective breeding properly? Im not worried about the moral implications, just the science please.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Why do men choose to marry a plain Jane woman over a pretty woman?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Which album is your favorite that's now 50 years old (from 1975), and what's the best song on the album?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Why do I sweat between my legs all the time, top off my legs, all way down?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Why do I sweat a great deal while exercising the same on some days and not so much on others?

Procrastinates a lot.

That's it for today.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Does not procrastinate.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?